Always #LikeAGirl

No lie I almost shed a tear.... lol Yesss I tear for it all. 

Ladies lets show people what the power of a women can do. :) 

Real Connections Are Impossible Because People Are Too Focused On Sex’

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Click full blog ---->> Keke Palmer: ‘Real Connections Are Impossible Because People Are Too Focused On Sex’

People make it impossible to make real connections because they are too focused on getting to the sex! I mean, how can you expect to get to level ten when you haven’t passed steps 1-9. We all have to be careful of the energy we let into our bodies. Why am I gonna have sex with you to find OUT if you can love me down the line?  Shouldn’t you love me before we get there? Things happen, yes, but it’d be best to wait it out. Allow for a true connection to be made without physical intrusions.

I’m out here trying to make REAL connections. My flesh will never be able to compare to what is in the HEART. It’s really disappointing though. Cause you can like someone & be shut out simply because you won’t put out. #pushfoward I value myself too much to play myself to the left in such a way. We are too good for that y’all, we deserve more. As women, chemicals go off when you have sex w/ someone it causes a form of attachment; reproduction is want the body wants. So you may THINK you love someone because you had sex with them. But it could be HORMONES.

Do not let your body guide you. Listen to your heart. The man you could be in the bed with may look fine on the outside. But he could be the enemy himself. It’s not even about titles. It’s about respect & appreciation. Whoever gets to have you must VALUE YOU. If the person you’re dealing with does not realize you are worth the effort & the time.. THEY DO NOT DESERVE YOU.

I shouldn’t have to give you all of me for you to invest. You need to believe just as I do in you, then you’ll be rewarded.

What can you tell us about abstinence and the dating scene?

Both men and women pressure each other for sex. We’re young, live your life and enjoy yourself. My thing is, people need to be with those who respect you. At the end of the day, whoever you spend your time with make sure they value you. If you feel over the course of time they are deserving of whatever it is you would like to give them, fine.

What is "MAIN" or "#1" girl exactly mean????

I NEVER liked the term wifey, main or any of those that sounded it as if there was other levels below me. I and my friends never agree on dating and relationship. Glad to know there is someone out there who thinks the same. Mya explains below...

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On her thoughts of being considered ‘a trophy’:
I think women are sometimes labeled or possibly pursued as or looked at as objects. You know, surface. In younger, less mature relationships, it’s usually surface attraction. Let’s start there. And then you hear all kinds of new school lingo, like, ‘main,’ ‘side’ and ‘trophy’ or ‘wifey.’ I’m like, ‘What are those things?’ I don’t do ‘main,’ okay? I don’t do ‘number one’ ’cause that means there’s a ‘number two’ and ‘number three.’ I don’t like that kind of stuff. ‘Main,’ what does that mean? That means there are others. I don’t like those kind of words. Also, I don’t mind ‘trophy’ because it means there’s a prize but there’s work to do, which ‘Like A Woman’ describes. There’s work to do to get to know me. That’s what a relationship is. Get to know me. All of the surface stuff, that is here and gone tomorrow.

On cheating and relationship double standards:
All of those girls that you text on your phone right now and sending all kinds of crazy videos and poses, that’s cheating. Because if you found any of that in my phone, because you voiced that you don’t want to find even a guy’s name that you might know in my phone, then what you’re doing is cheating times 10!
When you admire a female, or whatever it is you admire, you’re admiring that. I don’t mind a guy looking at another female when we’re in public. Females and women are beautiful, but don’t create double standards in a relationship. Don’t ever do that. Don’t have a problem with me when I want to look at some eye candy over here because I’m allowing you to look at eye candy over here. It’s a fair situation. It’s a two-way street.

Read more: Necole Bitchie.com: Mýa Dishes On Relationship Double Standards And Why She’s Not Looking To Be Anyone’s ‘Trophy’ http://www.necolebitchie.com/2014/03/03/mya-dishes-on-relationship-double-standards-and-why-shes-not-looking-to-be-anyones-trophy/#ixzz2uvy7Per2

Melanie Fiona speaks on the definition of Success.

I have began a blog about Success and Friends. Not finished yet, sitting in the draft section. But this article is perfect for what I have coming soon....

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Melanie on finding balance in happiness and your career:

People assume that you get to a certain point in your life and you live a certain way, and I remember for 7 years while I was trying to get a record deal, leaving Canada. Let’s talk about that I came from Canada. My parents are Caribbean. They are immigrants and they are old school traditional parents. And here I come, saying, ‘I’m going to go to LA and try to be a singer!’ It was terrifying but I’ve always been one to take risks. I’ve never been one to back down from a challenge.

Even in doing music, in previous years, there’s always been a fight to do what I wanted to do and be what I wanted to be. In the beginning, I turned down record deals because they wanted me to be something that I wasn’t comfortable with at the end of the day. And that’s a scary thing too. Not to conform and concede to people telling you, ‘If you do this, [you'll be successful]‘ and I’m okay with that. I’m not scared of the hard work or the journey. It helps build character.

Melanie on her definition of success

Success is happiness.  That’s it. Too often we allow other people’s expectations to be put on us and to define what we have to live up to and what makes us successful. The thing that you can definitely control is your choice to be happy.

Melanie on love

I would say, figure out the type of love that you want for yourself and be open to that and really manifest that. I really believe that you can say, ‘I want this type of love and I see it, and yes I’ve been hurt and sometimes my doubt is stronger than my faith, but I believe in it.’ And I believe it will find you.

Read more: Necole Bitchie.com: [Video] Melanie Fiona Shares Personal Struggles And Relationship Advice At ‘Girl Talk With Melanie Fiona’ http://necolebitchie.com/2014/02/26/video-melanie-fiona-shares-personal-struggles-and-relationship-advice-at-girl-talk-with-melanie-fiona/#ixzz2uRhcFnh3
Read more at http://necolebitchie.com/2014/02/26/video-melanie-fiona-shares-personal-struggles-and-relationship-advice-at-girl-talk-with-melanie-fiona/#4B4md4KiS73br9kM.99

Necole Bitchie Black Weblog Awards Blogger Of The Year Speech

I'm huge on following people that came from nothing and turned it into everything. I couldn't help my tears from coming down when watching this video. If you don't know me by now, I am emotional. lol. I'm the female that cries through the romantic movies.

How did I become a fan of www.necolebitchie.com?
Trying to reach my dreams in the fashion industry you kind of fall into following celebrity gossip. A friend put me on to (no promo for this negative blog site). I was hooked. Then one day a few years ago my friend who is a PR told me about Necolebitchie. I want to say it was 2009. I started reading her blog and noticed that she was selective about what she posted. I also picked up that she was a reliable source that wasn't thirsty posting everything for hits. Its very rare you will go on her site and catch a juicy rumor with a headline the way you would go on (no promo for these negative blog sites, lol).  People feed off negativeness and drama. Common you can sit and deny but you know that is how we all ended up watching all these negative reality shows. So that definitely is a factor I respect her on taking a risk with her business.

At this point she is pretty much the only website I go on, not so much for the CG but for her movement believing in God, faith, good deeds, and striving to be a better person and spread love in the world. :)

I can relate to this woman in a million ways. I will not focus on all the points but the one that caught my attention was her insecurities on speech.

Necole...started from the BOTTOM. Now she here. <3